The messaages he's leaving me now during this time of silence is very telling. I am so comfortable with him and our rltp and confident in how he feels. WiiMan21 Then invite the girl over for a threesome Problem solved I'm gonna have to pass, but thanks for the sincere advice. She kissed me n said it is okay. But atleast she will be happy in the future! I mean, the guy brought the girl back to the condo? Please report comments that you feel are in violation of these guidelines to keep discussions constructive. He feels he did nothing wrong because at that point, he says he didn't believe we would stay together.
You were on a break and the point of breaks is to be able to experiance other people and maybe his way of seeing if they were right was a kiss. I think- my recollection is genuinely hazy. If she kissed a guy that she spends a lot of time with. At least i think that the way forward. Will give out of scared so much older than kissing another girl in 8th grade with him or why he kissed another guy or why. I've kinda been in this situation, but i was the cheater. You kissed another girl - was is deliberately? On one hand, my rational side thinks its not a huge deal cos I mean it's only a kiss, and he told me after a relatively short interval.
Even down to the point where he admits to initiating. Your best bet in a situation like that is to dump her and start hooking up with other women to move on, rather than forgiving her and getting more involved with her e. Anyway, he ended up taking it to another level. Has repeatedly tried to kiss her to kiss is insincere. The same goes for you as well. Maybe it was just a silly drunk game and nothing more. He said while they were waiting to sober up she started spilling her feelings again, and for that second he didn't think and initiated the kiss.
Thatd be a weird relationship otherwise I disagree that you can hold both partners for the betrayal of one. My girlfriend of 3 years kissed one of her old friends from childhood when she was back home at a family reunion. She would have then begun to deeply regret the mistake she made, to the point where she felt sick with guilt about it and apologized to you. I felt myself starting to tremble when I heard, but when I think of his history it makes sense. Many couples have stayed together after acts of cheating.
Then invite the girl over for a threesome Problem solved how I feel. The update needs to be about the solution. The issue is not how or why it happened, but rather what to do now in the aftermath. Women are naturally attracted to the strength in men e. Then invite the girl over for a threesome Problem solved I'm gonna have to pass, but thanks for the sincere advice.
If you really love eachother then you will get through it and come out stronger. He's had me confused and spending my money I don't have for years. Maybe she just wants to provoke you,into doing stuff with her. There are some women out there who will be 100% faithful to you for life and never cheat on you, but there are also some women out there who will cheat on you and not really care about it at all. Dont let this get out of hand, try and identify the cause of the problem and hopefully you two can avoid the sort of mess that i ended up in. She came out today telling me that earlier in the day, she was drinking with some friends and playing games Apparently she wasn't drunk , and was dared to kiss another girl.
Yes, there is absolutely something wrong with it. By my girlfriend has started dating cheaters or her, and a dream researcher, lifelong. It didn't bother me because 1. I don't know why I'm not more angry about this. And your bf has to do a lot to help you trust him again. I'm incredibly remorseful and acknowledge I fucked up. Now and i was honest, but shy, 'ok, would she thinks you are paired off.
I'm doing it without realizing, as the same thing has happened to me. But, she now has issues with trusting him, which isnt that surprising. This made me immediately very uncomfortable, and I left soon after. Literally the only reasons why I am having troubles with this is that she didn't consider me ahead of time, and that she saw nothing wrong about any of it. I know a couple that were together for 5 years and she was the guys first lover, first love, first kiss, first everything. However, you need to be stronger than that. Now he says it meant nothing and that he got scared about asking me to marry him.
When she feels feminine in comparison to your masculinity, the sexual spark will naturally reignite between you. I'm glad she was honest at least, but really don't know how to feel. Quote: Originally posted by westernxer You said you've forgiven him, but it's obvious you haven't. Regardless of how close you and her felt, you have always been individual to her. He was by far the drunkest person there and when we were all out, he ended up kissing another girl and i saw it. For example: If you get angry, become insecure, cry, call her names or threaten to hurt her or the other guy, she can then use that as a reason to break up with you e.