Striking Up a Conversation— If she starts up a conversation with you, she may just need information, but it could indicate an additional motive. If you put up some article you read she will probably share it as well. She wants to know what type of person you are. She wants you to drag your fingers lightly along her arm, in her hair, on her hand. Of course this doesn't mean you should be a selfish jerk -- there's a fine line between being fair and being cheap. She would make you her friend.
So how do you tell the difference between a subtle conversational opener and daily frustration? She would wink and smile at you when you say something funny or not. She will feign a number of things to get an opportunity to talk to you. Greetings — How does she greet you? Jealousy — Jealousy is general a terrible thing, but here is one instance in which it can actually be useful. Don't give too much right away and expect her to give back. So, if you are getting the same signs as above from the girl then definitely she is trying to flirt with you.
. Watch for those other contextual clues: proximity, body language, even the tone of voice. Perhaps she is trying to give you an opportunity to make your move. Point of origin — Another excellent indicator is…if she does not want you to know where she lives, then she is either not interested, or still developing her trust in you. Then when you actually do crack a joke she bursts out laughing. Want something you've never had? She is definitely into you and wants to grab your attention.
If she has no problem with you knowing where she lives and better yet, inviting you in, then she is confortable with you. Act like you do not care about your outcome with her, that you have plenty of choices because you do after all , and that you are a picky guy. You have her full attention and she will always be locked in your eyes if she is really into you. Learn to recognize when women want you to approach, then go over and say hello. Hence the reason why women are generally attracted to men who are somewhat popular. Introducing Children — Is she a single mother? Introductions — If she introduces you to her family and friends, that is a very good sign, because she may be welcoming you into her inner-circle, which she may want you to be a part of.
Start off slowly; you have to believe in yourself first before women start believing you. Does she walk past you frequently? Lip service — Does she use her tongue to wet her lips, or rub the tip of her pointer finger across them? If she merely pushes it back to your side of the table that is not good. Why would they rather choose a man who understands nothing about their feelings over a good, sensitive guy like you? They may throw a discrete wink or use — looking from your eye to your lip and back to your eyes. Does she always seem happy to see you and energized when you are around? Any woman will admire you for it. Yes, that means she will actually make efforts to earn your love.
She always has her eye on you so might not notice when she does the same things you do. If she isn't the most outspoken of women she will always agree with what you have to say. She may do this whenever you cough, trip, or say something cute. Beds are not the most common area for chatting. Similarly, women will sometimes stray from their group of friends to give a guy a chance to approach them one on one, largely because they know this is less intimidating for the man and therefore more likely to happen. Head tilt — The head tilt generally denotes interest, approval and is frequently a prelude to a kiss.
If she leaves it there, or better yet, picks it up and starts to play with it, or re-wraps it more neatly for you, those are good signs. Sometimes she has enough courage in the moment to be overtly flirty but not enough to pull the trigger herself. You deserve her and you know it. See it as a fair trade -- she's gotta give for you to give. They may also do something to bring your attention to their mouth — touching their lip with a finger or biting their lip.
Women smell desperation from a mile away. These are usually signs of disapproval or a lack of interest. Approach Invitation 4: Proximity and Lingering Another common approach invitation that women will give is to use proximity. A big smile with a hug and a kiss on the cheek are great. Your time and attention are valuable things that must be earned, even by the hottest women.
Who does she run to — If yours is the shoulder she cries on and you are the one she goes to when she is feeling low or needs help, you may be the one. The funny thing is they may not even realize it. They want to learn about who you are and what to expect from you by gauging your reactions to different stimuli. She would always want to go out with you: She could arrange a date with you occasionally and would be happy to go on a date you invited her to. The quality, image, strength of her relationship define everything that she is.