I feel terrible about myself and I really want to tell his girlfriend about everything. As I have said before the grass is not greener on the other side it is merely greener where you water it. Men sadly, frequently leave because of a wife's or a child's ill health. But the rest of the year I live in luxury - with afternoons spent in hotels and evenings in restaurants. Which I vowed never cross the line and but I did kissed the guy. They may or may not have known the man was married but they went ahead anyway, ending up infatuated or in love. If your love for another person is greater than your love for yourself, you are Not ready for a relationship and you have to work hard on your selfesteem going to therapy and making a life for yourself outside of dating and men.
But then he went back to make plans to move out, to be with me. He fell totally in love with a coworker, got a divorce and quickly remarried to his mistress. It was suppose to be an out of town summer fling and we stayed in touch. I hv been with this man for 8 yrs. No holidays, no trips, no real dates. There are several issues that could be going on inside of a mistresses life and mind. Hanging on to an affair in hopes that a man will leave his wife is something many mistresses do and if there are years that pass by, she becomes more invested in the relationship and also more comfortable within the lie.
Jardine, I agree that most people are in essence polyamorous, it is just that society has channelled us in the direction of monogamy to create units of responsibility for the children that are created. I stayed, primarily it was a friendship or though it was. I tried to put his mind at ease by saying maybe we should make our bf gf relationship more friendly which would make it safer. I ended it a few months ago for several weeks , but like a fool started talking again to him. I have been doing wrong thing for four years. Well I guess either he figured that he might get mean portions from someone thin, or more likely, he is not as attractive as he thinks. He was flattering her and calling her his Greek goddess and telling her he lover her.
Have been with him for 3 years. I am seriously bothered by all these. But this man im seeing is married, with kids, to his second wife…. It did not work out with the mistress and he sort to violently prevent me divorcing him. I pride myself on being respectful of marriage. I see him almost everyday here, and he is always there for me, kind, sweet, funny, intelligent, I am really good friends with his parents too. I will leave him be with his family.
Other than being with someone I have no right to be with, I am a good person. I know i should never of started seeing him in the first place , he said he has never had an affair before but i dont know if i believe him, i know he will not contact me again as i really feel he never really cared to begin with. I know I started a wrong thing, and I tried best to fix it, but now, with all these crying, begging, suicidal thoughts of his, am I still doing the right thing? The other man continued to be at my side. So not only was I getting hate from her but from everyone I used to associate with on social media. Now, the the guy gives us money every now and them to support our son.
Got curly hair, I can guarantee you wish it were straight and conversely if it's straight you will wish it were curly. And the events that led to an affair if that happens are the same, unique. At first it was just just an emotional affair then about a year ago we started having a sexual affair as well. She approached him and he told his wife to keep walking. It is easy to seem like the perfect gentleman in this bubble, as he only has to play this role for relatively short periods. From the beginning he has told me that he is no longer in love with her but is afraid to leave because of what she may do. He has made it clear that he wants to stay married.
Par example, how the hell can people know this to be true when each marriage is unique, its events? I also, do not work with this person anymore so we wont be running into each other there. I can imagine the average mistress would have welcomed her lover with open arms, delighted he'd chosen her over his wife. Sure did marry the wrong person and I certainly did run for the hills. Most of Jeff's wealth is tied up in Amazon stock, but the estranged couple does own 400,000 acres of property together. Have tried to break away, but he always comes back and I always open the door.
It has been two months but he is still using suicidal thought to threaten me to get back with him. I have been seeing a person about a year and half, and in the beginning he told me his wife drive him crazy and mean, verbally abusive, and he has to leave her. He has never hide his identity that he is married. Once they get to know me, they realise I am different from any other mistress. He saw his lawyer to concern about divorce and prepare his finance before he can leave. I am addicted to him and have major withdrawals every time I leave and now he is starting to be cold with me.